How were you motivated as a child? Most parents will take a positive approach and will use a generous amount of praise and encouragement. Other parents may take a more negative approach and will try to shame, humiliate, blame or even coerce their child into cooperating. The two approaches are vastly different and are both based on the ability for the parent to consistently set limits. Parents who are ineffective with setting limits will more likely see a lot of testing and resistance. Due to the child testing the limits, parents often are observed to get worn down, get angry and frustrated and will say discouraging things. On the other hand, parents who use firm limits will expect and require cooperation and recognize that children are most likely to cooperate when asked to in a respectful manner. Remember, punishment can sometimes temporarily stop a behavior, but only reinforcement can teach and promote a new positive behavior.
If positive messages inspire cooperation what are the guidelines for using positive messages?
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